Is very important.
You must always bring yourself up. That is the only reality. You are divine. You are deserving. You are here in the right place, at the right time.
You must be positive because you know that the alternative is insane. Life cannot be one way or the other. It is only one way.
Yes life is hard. It is uncomfortable. It is scary. Pain is pain and you feel it always. But pain is no longer fear. Pain is no longer sin. It is only life just as you are. There is no difference between you and pain. And life is good, then so is pain.
Your guilt is no longer real. Only reason is now. When we make an error we do not feel guilt or shame for it. We correct and move on.
Pain is real. And so are you.